Mindful Mothering
“Coincidence is God’s Way of Remaining Anonymous.” —Albert Einstein Etched in my mind is the image of my mother on the day she taught me to pray. She is sitting at a table, her back very straight, her hair curly. She bri...
Parenting as the Practice of Freedom
Does parenting reinforce the control and domination in our culture or is it a reflection of the freedom we claim to value so dearly? When I stepped into the role of parent, I didn’t question the foundation upon which tha...
Three Good Things to Read, Watch and Use
“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched – they must be felt with the heart.” — Helen Keller I was recently contacted by the website,27goodthings.com, with a request that I share th...
Ten Steps for Taming a “Tantrum” With Love
We’ve all witnessed it – our serene and blissful child transforming before our eyes over a seemingly small disappointment or discomfort. His freshly built, wooden bridge toppling over with little brother’s touch. Her soc...
10 Signs that You May Not Be Present and 10 Ways to be Mindful with Yo...
One week ago I way lying in a hospital bed with my mother, holding her hand, my cheek next to hers, wading through an illness that had stopped her in her tracks. I thought about how it must have felt to be a baby in her ...
“From a small seed a mighty trunk may grow.” —Aeschylus
I am sitting in a cozy, almost empty cafe, my body arranged sideways in my seat—an attempt to avoid lower back pain brought on by exercise done too enthusiastically after a long hiatus. It’s a few days since a gorgeous s...
“Love is Composed of a Single Soul in Two Bodies” – ...
“Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.” —Aristotle It is 2:30 am in a hotel room in Wisconsin. I am awakened by the sound of my son Jonah—a shiny, new four year old now—crying from the queen bed next t...
Don’t Know Mind as a Path for Parenting
Don’t-Know-Mind, or Beginners Mind, is a Buddhist principle that helps remind us that clinging to certainty is a natural human tendency that can cause us suffering, and in parenting can interfere with our children&...
Five Ways to Return to Mindfulness With Your Children
Being mindful with your children is not about being perfect. It is about recommitting to sharing moments with them time and time again – even when you’ve gone way off of your path and have to travel a long ro...
Parenting Like an Ordinary Human
Embracing “Ordinariness” as a Pathway to Real Contentment What does the concept of ‘being ordinary’ bring up for you? It was only recently that I was asked to consider this. And, to be hones...







